Thursday, 13 December 2012
Bila anak anda memberontak
Anak berusia 1.5 tahun ke 2.5 tahun akan mula memberontak, buang barang, merajuk dan protest. Jika anak anda berkelakuan demikian, bukan bermaksud dia
sudah menjadi degil atau kurang ajar. Anak sekecil ini, tidak akan kurang ajar. Dia sedang belajar untuk ekspres diri dia disebabkan dia berasa letih atau kecewa akan sesuatu.
Oleh itu jalan untuk membantu dia menjadi tenang:
1- pegang dia seperti dalam gambar ini.
2- bisikan anda sayang dia dan understand perasaan dia.
3- baca ayat Quran dan A'uzubillah hi manasyaitan nir rajim, supaya syaitan tidak mengambil kesempatan kpd nya dan anda.
4-tenangkan dia dengan kata-kata kasih dan anda pun perlu tenang
5- JANGAN SEKALI-KALI MARAH DAN MENJERIT ATAU MEMUKULNYA KONONNYA UNTUK MENDISIPLINKAN DIA. Ini hanya akan menjadikan dia anak yang pengecut atau yang suka memberontak.
Oleh itu jalan untuk membantu dia menjadi tenang:
1- pegang dia seperti dalam gambar ini.
2- bisikan anda sayang dia dan understand perasaan dia.
3- baca ayat Quran dan A'uzubillah hi manasyaitan nir rajim, supaya syaitan tidak mengambil kesempatan kpd nya dan anda.
4-tenangkan dia dengan kata-kata kasih dan anda pun perlu tenang
5- JANGAN SEKALI-KALI MARAH DAN MENJERIT ATAU MEMUKULNYA KONONNYA UNTUK MENDISIPLINKAN DIA. Ini hanya akan menjadikan dia anak yang pengecut atau yang suka memberontak.
A POEM TO MY BELOVED SON MUHAMMAD AFHAM DANISH
To my first born son, Afham Danish
Whom I've always loved and adored
You're such a good son, and also big brother
You've always made me proud to be your mother
From the moment I knew you existed
The live that I felt for you could not be resisted
The elation that I felt as you grew in my womb
The joy I felt in my heart as I started to bloom
Whom I've always loved and adored
You're such a good son, and also big brother
You've always made me proud to be your mother
From the moment I knew you existed
The live that I felt for you could not be resisted
The elation that I felt as you grew in my womb
The joy I felt in my heart as I started to bloom
From the first time you kicked your Dad in the ear
Until the glorious day you actually appeared
Upside down and much quicker than planned
You changed my life that instant, you understand
Becoming a parent was scary from the start
You hope you do the right thing by following your heart
You give your love and guidance each and every day
Hoping to raise your children the best possible way
But you never receive any specific guarantee
That they'll turn out exactly as you want them to be
You pray that you've influenced them positively each day
In decisions they make, what they do, what they say
You hope and you pray that you've done everything right
But you never know the outcome, not just overnight
So you share in their lives, through the ups and the downs
And try to support them and always be around
So while raising you I tried to do the best that I could do
I don't know exactly what I did to deserve you
But I definitely must have done something right
Because having you for my son has been pure delight
I'm so very proud of the wonderful kids you've become
(Hopefully, contributed in part by something I have done)
I hope that my love and guidance has played a small part
I know the most important part comes straight from your heart
You've grown to become a wonderful and adorable kids
Who is always there for me and family
Your love and coquettish is something I'll always treasure
Having you for my son is one of my life's pleasures
I'll always be there for you in any way that I can
That won't ever change, even now that you're a far away from me
You're my flesh and blood, an important part of my life
And will forever be
So feel my love with you each and every day
Even those days that you are so far away
May it give you courage and strength, if that be required
Or may it comfort and hold you, if you so desire
May it help you overcome any obstacle in your way
Or simply just be there for you from day to day
I know you're as strong and as tough as they come
So you be extra careful and come home to your MOM
I LOVE U SON, HAVING YOU IS SUCH A MIRACLE HAPPENED TO MY LIFE
Until the glorious day you actually appeared
Upside down and much quicker than planned
You changed my life that instant, you understand
Becoming a parent was scary from the start
You hope you do the right thing by following your heart
You give your love and guidance each and every day
Hoping to raise your children the best possible way
But you never receive any specific guarantee
That they'll turn out exactly as you want them to be
You pray that you've influenced them positively each day
In decisions they make, what they do, what they say
You hope and you pray that you've done everything right
But you never know the outcome, not just overnight
So you share in their lives, through the ups and the downs
And try to support them and always be around
So while raising you I tried to do the best that I could do
I don't know exactly what I did to deserve you
But I definitely must have done something right
Because having you for my son has been pure delight
I'm so very proud of the wonderful kids you've become
(Hopefully, contributed in part by something I have done)
I hope that my love and guidance has played a small part
I know the most important part comes straight from your heart
You've grown to become a wonderful and adorable kids
Who is always there for me and family
Your love and coquettish is something I'll always treasure
Having you for my son is one of my life's pleasures
I'll always be there for you in any way that I can
That won't ever change, even now that you're a far away from me
You're my flesh and blood, an important part of my life
And will forever be
So feel my love with you each and every day
Even those days that you are so far away
May it give you courage and strength, if that be required
Or may it comfort and hold you, if you so desire
May it help you overcome any obstacle in your way
Or simply just be there for you from day to day
I know you're as strong and as tough as they come
So you be extra careful and come home to your MOM
I LOVE U SON, HAVING YOU IS SUCH A MIRACLE HAPPENED TO MY LIFE
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